There are often distortions in family systems that we perceive as unhealed aspects in everyday life and from which individual members can learn.
When further learning is no longer needed, these distortions heal on their own. This is noticeable in our everyday life in a variety of ways: individual family members can become ill, or quarrels that can even end up in court, or sudden reconciliation, unexpected meetings.
But I can also work on healing on my own. This always concerns my very own aspect of the family system. When I heal my own (inner) family system, it's like an impulse for all the other members that they can absorb, but don't have to.
Healing does not always have to mean that all family members understand each other, but also that you allow yourself to go your separate ways.
In a family system, there may be members of different families of origin in a lifetime, who are friends or enemies. It can feel as if individuals belong to different clans. This often manifests itself in tensions in everyday life. The healing can be, for example, that the clans reconcile or separate.
The roots of our family systems lie in the 9th chakra, our galactic bodies. What cannot be solved within this galactic level can find healing
(=understanding) in the 11th chakra, the universal view of galactic conditions.